PUA Training Super Summit 3 part 1

I don’t know what it is about London but you can guarantee that if I have to be somewhere at a certain time I will be late…and again it was proved on a cold day in November. Luckily others were suffering the same fate and I didn’t miss out on the beginning of the event, the event in question was the eagerly anticipated Super Summit 3 run by the UK based company PUA Training.

Now, why was I here? Well to put it bluntly, like everyone else that came we all wanted to improve our chatting up skills. Personally mine come and go with the wind and I wanted some insights into getting some consistency and some techniques so that I could begin chatting up deliberately rather than leaving it to the whims of fate. I don’t know about you but no one taught me how to chat up a girl when I was growing up and quite frankly there are a hell of a lot quicker ways to become good at something rather than through trail and terror!

The name, Super Summit, brings to mind the politicians negotiating over the latest treaty, luckily what PUA Training were bringing to the table was far more interesting.

The event kicked off with Adam Lyons, a guy who really walks the talk, doing a couple of hours on what it is like to be involved with a girl who is a real ’10′ and how you need to behave if you really want to get one. To be honest, a ’10′ sounds like bloody hard work to me so perhaps a ’9′ is who I should be searching out. Adam is a master of what he calls social proof (essentially this is what we have all felt at some point, ever noticed how you seem to attract much more attention when you are with a girlfriend than when you are on your own?) and he talked about using other girls as your wings to validate you instantly and more effectively than any guy could. Even to a newbie this makes perfect sense, chatting up could be effortless with some of these techniques. Adam admitted that he was getting frustrated teaching just the basics and he wants to spend more time teaching the advanced levels, following that his exposure to teaching newbies will be very limited.

The bulk of the day was spent with Matt Hussey and I really enjoyed it! Chatting up successfully is the result we are all after but if you want to reach that place then you need to build a solid foundation of confidence and belief. The guy has obvious presence and can connect to an audience very easily, Matt worked on what is best described as the inner game. He talked in depth about…

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PUA Training Super Summit 3 part 2

…the different inner voices that control us and how we can turn the tables on them. He showed how we can instantly change our energy levels and therefore our attitude and therefore our outward experience.

Although I enjoyed Matt’s content the one thing that really impressed me the most was that he genuinely cared about the guys in the room, and men in general. He obviously meets a lot of guys…nice guys, who have been beaten up by the so called dating game and it obviously gets to him that guys have to through all this and even that they have to learn the ‘game’ in the first place just to be able to chat up a girl. But he is doing his best to level the playing field and you should do the same. For those that attended this event it will probably be enough to say that the white stripes ’7 nation army’ is firmly embedded on my mp3 player & that when I see the ’300′ film on the DVD shelf it always raises a chuckle!

Last but not least was Richard La Runa (aka Gambler), he had about an hour to talk about some of the strategies that he himself uses when out and about. It would be unfair of me to mention specifics but there were some great original tips, for example, how to create ‘movie star’ moments; it reminded me of a Mexican wave but with gasps and open mouths rather than raised arms lol. Nice.

All in all a great event, very good value and some special offers only available on the day. As the day ended I made my way home with plenty to digest and a copy of Richard’s book under my arm. Now..that girl sitting opposite me on the tube has the biggest brown eyes…I wonder what Richard would do?

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