I don’t know what it is about London but you can guarantee that if I have to be somewhere at a certain time I will be late…and again it was proved on a cold day in November. Luckily others were suffering the same fate and I didn’t miss out on the beginning of the event, the event in question was the eagerly anticipated Super Summit 3 run by the UK based company PUA Training.
Now, why was I here? Well to put it bluntly, like everyone else that came we all wanted to improve our chatting up skills. Personally mine come and go with the wind and I wanted some insights into getting some consistency and some techniques so that I could begin chatting up deliberately rather than leaving it to the whims of fate. I don’t know about you but no one taught me how to chat up a girl when I was growing up and quite frankly there are a hell of a lot quicker ways to become good at something rather than through trail and terror!
The name, Super Summit, brings to mind the politicians negotiating over the latest treaty, luckily what PUA Training were bringing to the table was far more interesting.
The event kicked off with Adam Lyons, a guy who really walks the talk, doing a couple of hours on what it is like to be involved with a girl who is a real ‘10′ and how you need to behave if you really want to get one. To be honest, a ‘10′ sounds like bloody hard work to me so perhaps a ‘9′ is who I should be searching out. Adam is a master of what he calls social proof (essentially this is what we have all felt at some point, ever noticed how you seem to attract much more attention when you are with a girlfriend than when you are on your own?) and he talked about using other girls as your wings to validate you instantly and more effectively than any guy could. Even to a newbie this makes perfect sense, chatting up could be effortless with some of these techniques. Adam admitted that he was getting frustrated teaching just the basics and he wants to spend more time teaching the advanced levels, following that his exposure to teaching newbies will be very limited.
The bulk of the day was spent with Matt Hussey and I really enjoyed it! Chatting up successfully is the result we are all after but if you want to reach that place then you need to build a solid foundation of confidence and belief. The guy has obvious presence and can connect to an audience very easily, Matt worked on what is best described as the inner game. He talked in depth about…
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